Absen

May 25, 2009 at 5:49 am | In 1 | Leave a Comment

What FACEBOOK does for you?

May 25, 2009 at 5:27 am | In 1 | Leave a Comment

Lately… thousands (millions, maybe…) of people join this virtual networking service… a site whare you can add, search and connect you with your friends or even friend-wanna-be. Situs ini punya banyak fitur dimana kita bisa kembali “bertemu” dengan kawan lama, bahkan yang sudah puluhan tahun gak ketemu or even gak tahu kabarnya gimana. bisa jadi ajang promosi, atau bahkan bisa ajang nyari gebetan baru. Beda dengan social networking lainnya, entah kenapa situs ini semakin populer dan tanpa beda lapisan baik secara umur maupun interest. No limit…

Murid gue yang umur 8 tahun aja bisa buat FB, even yang masih 6 tahun pun bisa. Sampe aki aki juga bisa bikin situs yang biasa diplesetin jadi pesbuk ini…

Dulu jamannya FS, pada bikin semua. kapan ada kenalan baru, ditanya punya FS pa nggak… hanya memang situs yang satu ini cuma digandrungi kawula muda, kawula tua dan pre muda (bocah, maksudnya) masih jarang. bahkan cenderung dianggap cuma wasting time.

Nah, fenomena FB ini bikin owner accountnya pada keranjingan. kalo kita iseng di warnet longok kanan kiri depan belakang atas bawah, di monitor mereka yang kebuka adalah situs yang ber-frame biru minimalis dengan logo huruf “f” ini. 

gak cuma di PC, yang punya HP GPRS jadul pun maksa maksa sampe baterai panas buat buka FB di hape. 

Jadi sedikit mikir… betapa zaman sudah berubah… dulu semua orang selalu menutupi keadaan mereka sebenarnya (lagi senang, sedih, bingung ato apapun). tapi sekarang, berantem aja juga kita “share” di FB, macet, hujan, badai, topan, sampe langit cerah juga di-share!

dan aneh tapi nyata… ada pasangan yang sampe putus gara-gara pacarnya ketahuan “add” mantan pacarnya… sampe kirim2an message segala. Gak cuma yang pacaran, bahkan yang dah nikah pun sampe cerai gara2 suaminya lebay2an ma cewek di FB. ironis…

social networking… ajang silaturahmi, tapi juga bisa memutus silaturahmi…

percaya nggak percaya…

Virginity

April 30, 2009 at 7:30 am | In Feeling | Leave a Comment

Last week I spent a night with my cousin
We were spoken about how to raise her child… a boy..
she was afraid what has become in this century…
Semua tantangan zaman yang dia khawatirkan gak bisa dihadapi sama anaknya…

Hiperbolic? not really, I guess..
karena zaman sekarang semakin menakutkan…
satu issue yang kita bahas adalah virginity… even for a boy…
not only for girls…

zaman sekarang seks udah jadi sebuah hal yang gak tabu
everybody talk about sex anywhere… and what they’re talking about is just not only “the lesson” but with whom they have with… even without any kind of legal bond between them…(marriage)

I guess this writing is controversial…
I mean, yes we all know that sex is the thing that we “may” do in a circle of marriage bond, but… may people think that is a pleasurable thing and legal to do with our bf/gf…
I won’t judge anyone… just want to share what’s in my mind…
If virginity is not “so” important… so what’s the meaning of the marriage itself?…

u name it,
one night stand,
bbs (bobo bobo siang)
or.. anything…

we face it right now… in front of our vary eyes! and we legalized them by doing nothing…

how many female students got MBA (Married by Accident) when they’re still too young to have a baby…
how many male students has to be dropped out from their school because they have to earn money for their not-so-in-time baby?

They’re not guilty… what they did is sin… and they’re sinner… but the baby?
nope…

maybe we should take a step back for a while.. what have we done for this generation and the next?

parents mind their own businesses…and let their children had their own too… and blew up a bridge named communication between them…

if the teenagers know how much their parents love them so, I bet they won’t do bad things…
and if teenagers want to listen to their parents words I bet parents will have time and will to talk with their youngsters…

I am no one… but I’m part of this generation…
and I want a better life for my later-kids…

I hope for a better era… I hope… and still hoping…

Ikhlas

March 20, 2009 at 3:08 am | In Feelings | Leave a Comment

Terus terang, baca kata di atas “Ikhlas” itu indah banget…

banget..

banget…

tapi untuk pelaksanaan, sulitnya minta ampun…!

lelah kadang gue juga untuk mengajarkan, melatih bahkan memaksa diri untuk menjadi orang yang ikhlas

Ikhlas yang semata-mata berbuat untuk ridho-Nya…

satu hal yang mungkin hanya bisa dilakukan oleh para nabi (padahal, nabi juga manusia)

so, anyone? do me a favor… teach me how to be sincere, with all of my heart and soul.

Allah, mohon pisan, berikan sedikit pencerahan dan setitik hidayah untuk mengecap rahasia-Mu…

If there’s any chance

March 11, 2009 at 5:39 am | In 1 | Leave a Comment
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Last night, 00:46

A friend sent me a message about the response of my friend when she saw another friend commented on the photo-of-me-and-him-which-uploaded-by-her in FB.
i replied: No big deal, I’ve had enough with that…

Today.
I’ve just checked.
The photo.
The comment.
Shocked.
I smiled. a bit bitter.
Sour, I guess.

I don’t mind about the comment (which I had guess before)
I just mind about her feeling…
How does she felt?
How will she react?
For you, my friend… let me tell you that I don’t mean it.
No offense, but… sometimes things just happened beyond our power…
peace :)

From time to time…

February 6, 2009 at 4:31 am | In 1 | 1 Comment

Huff…

Allah Maha Adil… From time to time… gue bergelut dengan segala aktifitas yang hfiuh… alhamdulillah…

Mulai dari nyusun proposal, coding program, sidang…

semuanya… selesai.. alhamdulillah…

KOREA INTERNET VOLUNTEERS

January 5, 2009 at 11:52 am | In 1 | 1 Comment

3 December 2008, they came to our school.

Could you imagine, our school is just like this..

.

(This picture taken from the 2nd stair)

Yes, it is being build, still…under construction…

Well, those Korea Internet Volunteers was amazing. They didn’t even complained about how wet the road is (it was almost every day)

And how hot it is… (Charles has run out of his sweat because of this…heheh)

(Ki-ka) Kim Jin Won (Ben), Nam Jung Ki (J.K), Kwon Soo Hyun (Soo), and Chun Bong Hwan (Charles)

They gave us trainings about the internet, computer usage and everything

, include Korean language…

and cooking…

And something that I’ll never forget…

The “real” Tae Kwon Do class…

It was awesome! I’ve never met such foreigners who are having heart as gold

Spending 21 days with them was the greatest days ever happened in my life.

TA…

November 12, 2008 at 3:20 am | In Feelings | Leave a Comment

TA… singkatan dari Tugas Akhir…

sumpah… ni tugas bikin orang mau berakhir…

secara, kemaren dah nemu tema, buat rancangan, terus nyusun proposal

pas mau ngajuin…

“Maaf, sudah ada yang mengajukan…jadi, silakan cari tema yang lain”

dan itu tinggal satu hari menuju deadline…HHfff….

I’m dead…

lemes….

Plurk

October 28, 2008 at 4:28 am | In 1 | Leave a Comment

Nge-plurk…?

yup, akhirnya nge-plurk juga,…

this morning, I’ve got an invitation from Mr. Khalid… to join the Plurk…

more simple web blog…

just put your life stories in a simple words and lines… great..

And I make it in purple, of course.. hehhe.. wanna see it? check this out…http://plurk.com/redeemByURL?from_uid=3232813&check=-1514385805&s=1

njelimet banget yah url’a? tahu tuh… dari sononya…heheheh

enjoy plurking…!

Tugas, tugas and tugas

October 28, 2008 at 3:25 am | In Motivation | Leave a Comment

Tugas…

T-U-G-A-S…

mulai dari laporan, proposal sampe the most-exhausting-thing: TA…

doesn’t mean to complain, just… emh… can I have my power-capsule? just like in DB legend… hahaha..

eh, mo tahu gak? kemarin gue skip tugas.. di tengah hecticnya ngerjain laporan, kabur ke TM bookstore, beli satu novel yang dah 4 bulan gue cari2… dan ada: DIVORTIARE from Ika Natassa…and finish it in 2 days… hohohoho… senangnya…

at least I refreshed my mind…

terus.. sekarang lagi explore wat bahan TA… apa ya yang kira-kira gampang dibikin, murah and berkesan gitu pas sidang? wahahahah… ngarang banget gue,…

wish me luck yah!:)

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